I dunno, in my eyes, no drug is better than another. It's a chemically induced intoxication, and as such, life is too short as it is. I don't need to fill it with black holes from where I can't remember what I did... Same really when it comes to smoking and drinking... I'm rather atypical when it comes to that tho, as I never had a need to experiment... I can't help feel that people who needed to rebbel against their parents, systems and I don't know what were, (sorry, but I'm going to offend someone now) weak...
At the same time, I don't let things like that bother me. I've lost mates to it, we all have... I lost my best friend. Not just some mate I saw once a week, but my one and everything a few years ago. The kind of friend you know you will only ever have one or two off during your whole life. I still will not give in and allow that to shut of a whole aspect of my life because I have to be all serious about it.
For me, humour is the most important thing in the world. No ammount of good looks, athletic ability, sexual capability, popularity, logic or common sense will EVER substitue for a lack of humour. I always see the funny side of anything first. It makes life rather morbid, but increadibly entertaining. This works for me, but not for all, I can respect that. All I'm saying is, some people will laugh at anything, given the situation's funny. It will at times be tasteless, and sometimes people even got hurt. Yet we laugh. I'm the first to laugh when I get hurt if it looked funny. It's the situation, not the person we laugh at. Thinking about the moral and serious side of a joke sinks it faster than an iceberg did the Titanic.
For a lot of people, laughter is the easiest way to deal with problems. It's our way of crying if you will. We laugh at horrible things, because it makes them barable. It doesn't mean we don't take things seriously, it doesn't mean we don't think about it. We just stick to the lighter side of it. Life is only ever as dark as you make it.
It's just a different angle, and in my oppinion, and easier one. Why make life more difficult than it already is?
Tm