I'm in love with the McDonald's drive thru girl

[brudus_maximus]

I'm in love with the McDonald's drive thru girl. On the weekends I work really early so I usually go to McDonald's to get some breakfast. On fridays and saturdays I started to notice this girl working the first window. She has red hair(massive plus) and is skinny. If I had to guess her age I would say low twenties. Of course being a massive social reject I have no idea how to aproach her. I have also noticed something. Latley she has started wearing makeup and giving me a big smile when I come through the drive through. It's not like a fake smile, I can tell it's genuine.

I have no idea how to make the first move. Obviously trying to get my mac on via drive through window would just be akward. I think next time I go through I might slip her a note, but what would I put on it. I'm terrible with talking so I may give her my e-mail, but what if she doesn't have a computer, but who doesn't have a computer.

[rk1rev]

dude its simple, just talk to her, notes are really high school and kinda boring, roll up and be likie, hey, how are yea, let me get your number

[Jugsmalone]

Well you do have to talk to her other than thank you and have a nice day, even if its to introduce her to AO...if she is into that you have something to talk about if not ask her . Just say Hi my name is _____ and I would really like to see you some time other than driving through so could I give you a call or maybe you would like my number and hand it to her....never know but you have to talk to her... if you want to work up slowly do gee your hair looks nice today I really do love Redheads


complimenting her will surely get her attention.

[Neoagent]

I had a crush on a waiter from Ryans once... then she worked at Quiznos and refused to give me my AT&T discount and I hate her now.

[Jugsmalone]

OHHH better yet I see you have a Birthday comeing very soon ask her if she would help you celebrate by going out to dinner and a movie...You than get to talk over dinner and see a movie her choice of course...dinner is a lot cheeper than popcorn and a soda....so take her to dinner first.

[rk1rev]

tell her it your birthday and we can screw if you want to, or something, or do the proper thing and just ask her out for dinner and movie on your b-day like jugsy said, go watch hancock or the new batman

[Negs]

Talking is what's going to help you the most. I agree with the others where note may not be the best idea. Definately keep your first date/hangout with a stranger casual and in public place (but where you still can have some privacy), like a booth at a cafe for lunch or something.

That way they will have the comfort of being in a public place and and not feel too presured, and you will still have the semi intimacy of the booth where you should be able to talk and get to know eachother. Things go well ask to hang out again sometimes. Personally I'd do the lunch thing on a Tues/Wed, then move in and ask for the hangout on Fri/Sat evening. That way it gives you guys some time away (clingy/desparate is VERY bad IMO), but still close enough to where the first encounter is still fresh in your memories.

Don't know what you do for fun out side of the game, but for like the evening date, you can do movie, dinner, or if you got the moves a club.

Third date .. if she doesn't put out dump her ass (hehe i kid i kid hehehe)



But in all honesty it won't matter what you do as long as you are confident in you actions. Girls aren't like guys ... well they are, but they also look for something intangible (i know crazy huh .. we're easy, boobs, ass, face .. and we're off LOL). Worst thing that would happen is you get shot down ... and that's nothing, just lets you continue on the hunt ^_^ which is more than half the fun IMO

[Neoagent]

"If you could be a Pizza what kind of Pizza would you be?" usually always works to start a conversation with anyone if you're too nervous to say anything else. If it gets a negitive reaction it will at least leave them smiling and wondering about the question and you later on.

[rk1rev]

lol i got my last fiance with telling her she was my future wife, worked well, for like 6 months XD

[Shigy]

I have no helpfull advice...but I do have a song for you.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nTTdGx_-aGU&feature=related

[Gridfan]

New Batman is a bit of a downer for a date, Hancock is better in that regards.


Try writing the following on that note: (make sure to give it to her half a week or possibly a week before)

I'm celebrating my birthday on the *day here*,
would you like to join me for a dinner and a movie (of your choice)?

Casual attire with a smile, on a date for two.

*sign full name*
*email here*
*phone here*

If she didn't have any interest in you before, she will now. And if she don't, well, then she isn't worth it.

Hey GSP forum gals, would you like a note like the example one I wrote above, and would you act on it?

[Gridfan]

A quick analysis of the note:
What the note is about is explained in the first line.
You state the day of the event so she can check her plans.
You ask her politely if she would like to join you.
You state the plans for the day. (dinner and movie)
You let her choose the movie.
You state casual attire, this avoids any demands or pressure on how she has to dress, most likely she'll dress somewhat better than casual, but you should dress casual regardless to avoid looking better dressed than her.
The "Casual attire with a smile, on a date for two." is not a rhyme but it does have a certain ring to it and sounds friendly. (it also indicate it will be just the two of you)

Full name is important, it shows a certain trust and gives her the upper hand as you do not really know her full name right?
phone is obvious, email is nice as it's a not that direct way of communicating and more relaxing.

When she contacts you, or maybe gives you a note some day later?As you stated you go Friday and Saturday right? So hand her the note on Friday and maybe she'll have a answer on Sat.
Important! On Saturday, do not inquire on the answer. Either she slips you a note or she'll mail/phone you that day (or maybe she did Friday night) just do what you usually do on Sat and the drive through.
Be friendly, get your order, act normal, smile and be on your way.
Note her behavior though (if she has not responded to the note yet),
if she seems cold, it's a no-go. If she's blushing/embarrassed or talks to you (not related to food/order etc.) things are looking good.

If she says she's busy that day, then that's ok. Just answer "Ah, that's ok, let me know if you want to go some other day then."
Again you are leaving her in control of when/where.

In fact, just by asking her out on YOUR birthday, you are showing that you are interested and it's not just a simple flirt.

When you do go out with her. Try a opening line like (when you meet her on the date) "Wow! ....." and be silent for a sec, try to look at her eyes.
Considering you got a crush on her you may automatically do this anyway. (just remember to look at her eyes and not anywhere else).

On the date be casual but a gentleman. Act as if you where on the town with a friend. Act normal, be yourself, don't pretend or act as anything your not.
Either she likes you or she does not, better to find out on first date than later, saves both of you a lot of potential pain and time.

At worst you end up having a nice dinner, movie, and may end up with a future friend. At best, you could be soulmates.

Focus on having a good time and get to know each other. Do not try to "win" her. Be yourself.

[Samalicious]

I don't have any advice because every one is different and responds to different things. I hope things work well and that you have courage enough to take a chance--you never know