I'm not sure what happened and I don't really want to know but if you give apologizes it's for a good reason.
Let me give you my cent about you having problems in general.
You told me at times and it was not a secret, that some others people was kinda shocked when you said some things. There is 2 different sides of shocking. I don't care about people shocked because I said and I still say for exemple I like harsh girls in any way and meaning possible (that sounds so sweet said like this but you don't need exemple there, you got it already).
The only thing it's there is a way to say things if you want say it. Stay cool and polite. If there is still people shocked that's not a problem for me as long I've been polite with them.
That was just my cent about your thoughts when you said people don't liked you because they don't liked what you loved. And so?
My other cent: I know you are quick at times to respond to bad people. Remember one thing it's if you act like the person you dislike the most, in my exemple; insulting, you will never stop the things but bring new problems.
Me too at times I'd like to be as worst than some people are with me or with friends but I don't. Instead of that I just try to stay the more Zen possible and fix things (at least in game, I'm not always really that way RL but here I'm) it doesn't always work though...
then the solution is to ignore the persons you have problems with (wtb /ignore rl) and if it still doesn't works and you feel like agressive like if you wanna eat the flesh and soul of someone, just logoff some minutes to calm down and be back after I'm sure it will help a lot.