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ok ok .. so the first marriage to Xelina was just for fun ..

But I just found out today that the player behind Fixerben not only quit AO.. but deleted his character .. I never even got to say goodbye!


*sobs quietly*

I'm sorry.

I was under the assumption that he would have told you, but I found out about it the other day. Apparently he hit some sort of high-end drama with other people. I don't know the details, but it was very abrupt.

*hugs twisty close* WE STILL WUB J00!!

Itll be alright!

Group hug!!!

*joins in the group hug*

it will be ok tristalyn..... we all love you and always will

Oh Tris... I'm so sorry. *hugs* I know how it feels to have that happen. Bootay's first and only great love in the game disappeared just like that too. I only found out after the fact and by accident since NO one bothered to inform her.

Sure, we aren't REALLY involved with them, but a certain amount of residual affection and emotional investment goes into a RPed relationship. So it HURTS when someone ends it like that.

Hunny if you need a shoulder to cry on or someone to vent to, I'm here.

Sad to hear Trist. *Hugs*

SaintBootay is quite right. While its not "Really" involved (You can't love them, or hold them, since its a game), you do gain a residual and emotional affection for them, if its truly rped well, almost as if you do love them.


I know the feelings, well....at least from seeing it with another. And my character (Myself, if you count the RP'ing) stood by her, always wanting to make her happy and so on.

And then she noticed as she waited for someone who won't return, Terenith (Me) was more than willing, but wanting, to love her more than the one who just left her behind was going to.

Xelina will find someone even better, who cares for her (Rp and perhaps even otherwise), and wants to be a shoulder for her to cry on, a helping hand, and love Xelina more than the dramatic and most likely cruel one that guy was. ^_^

That and all of GSP loves xalina and you. Hell, if there were enough fingers, we'd buy rings.

Often they'll do this...just leave without warning, to cause as much pain as possible.

It is a interesting note though. Such RP'ing, or plain fun, can reach such a level of emotional investiment and affection...sorta shows how grand, not bad, a game can be.


If ya need someone to rant and take out your anger on, who also understands this sort. I'm here.

*Huggles!*

Removed for time being...

Tristalyn wrote:ok ok .. so the first marriage to Xelina was just for fun ..

But I just found out today that the player behind Fixerben not only quit AO.. but deleted his character .. I never even got to say goodbye!


*sobs quietly*

Had a friend (female) do a in-game marriage once, then they became more attached. Started talkin about meeting IRL. Were really getting serious, as far as online can go I guess. All seemed fine, then the dude vanished.

Come to find out later, from his fiance, that he was engaged IRL and basically I guess satisfying some sort of need by having an online thing going too. Instead of telling the friend, he made up some bullshit story and vanished. What a coward. Can't believe his fiance would stay with him, too. He basically wanted a fling, before the ring.

Anyway, that has nothing to do with your situation

Sorry to hear it. I met Fixerben once in Reet's.

third time is a charm i hear...... any takers? *hides from trist and hopes she cant seek well* *hugs*

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I'm not really that upset about it.. It wasn't real.. we didn't know eachother in a RL sense and we hadn't really seen much of eachother in the past few months .. just something I found out about and decided to share.

No more marriages for me .. I don't have the time

*huggles Trist* You are a tough girl.. we all know you'll be okie dokie.. But yeah.. third time is suppose to be a charm.. so if you do give it another shot...

Sorry Trist.

I've found living in sin to be much more to my liking.

Veldron wrote:Sorry Trist.

I've found living in sin to be much more to my liking.

Ain't that the truth.

Sorry it didn't work out, Trist... seems like Benji's moved on from org Pres to some General in "Daycrawler".

He undeleted I guess.

That's a new one by me... How DOES one UNdelete?

Get to Funcom before a weekly removal, I guess.

I heard that you can do so, if you accidentaly removed a character.