by Vallikat » Mon May 02, 2005 11:38 pm
True love, the kind of romance and marriage, is unconditional. Thus he should forgive her.
What he should not do, is marry her.
Not at least until she gets help and plenty of it.
This wasn't ordinary cold feet.
She planned this.
She didn't just leave him at the alter.
She didn't have the guts to tell him that she was having second thoughts so she ran out not just on him but an elaborate wedding. She left her purse behind and paid for her bus ticket in cash so as to hide her trail. She then made the call saying that she'd been kidnapped. Meanwhile people are out searching for her, her family is desperate, the fiance is put through a lie detector test and she's out in Vegas playing the slots. So all in all I say this woman is a trifle unstable and if he marries her, he's more than a trifle unstable.