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You're A Keeper.....
I grew up in the sixties with practical parents -- a
Mother, God love her, who washed aluminum foil after
she cooked in it, then reused it. She was the original
recycle queen, before they had a name for it.
A Father who was happier getting old shoes fixed than buying new ones.
Their marriage was good, their dreams focused. Their
best friends lived barely a wave away. I can see them
now, Dad in trousers, tee shirt and a hat and Mom in
a house dress, lawn mower in one hand, dishtowel in the other.
It was the time for fixing things -- a curtain rod, the
kitchen radio, screen door, the oven door, the hem in
a dress. Things we keep.
It was a way of life, and sometimes it made me crazy.
All that re-fixing, reheating, renewing, I wanted just once to be wasteful.
Waste meant affluence. Throwing things away meant
you knew there'd always be more.
But then my Mother died, and on that clear summer's
night, in the warmth of the hospital room, I was struck
with the pain of learning that sometimes there isn't any 'more.'
Sometimes, what we care about most gets all used up
and goes away...never to return.
So...while we have it...it's best we love it.....and care
for it.....and fix it when it's broken.....and heal it when it's sick.
This is true.....for marriage.....and old cars.....and
children with bad report cards.....and dogs with bad hips.....
and aging parents.....and grandparents.
We keep them because they are worth it, because we are worth it.
Some things we keep.
Like a best friend that moved away -- or -- a classmate we grew up with.
There are just some things that make life important,
like people we know who are special.....and so, we keep them close!
I received this from someone who thought I was a
'keeper'! then I sent it to the people I think of in the same way.
Now it's your turn to send this to all those people that are "keepers" in your life...like you!!
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